Tuesday, April 12, 2011

British Man Dumped By Transsexual Wife

Fatine and Ian Young on the wedding day in 2009.

Fatine - a Malaysian transsexual who married and dumped Ian Young after getting British visa.

This is yet another weird love story.

Ian Young, 32 is disappointed with himself. He spent 12,000 pounds to allow his wife Fatine to stay in UK. He is heartbroken since Fatine left him quickly to become a showgirl. However, the twist in the story is that Fatine is a Malaysian transsexual who dumped her British husband just two weeks after he helped her win a permanent visa for UK.

Currently, she is living in Manchester and claiming benefits after she failed to launch a stage career in Blackpool, Lancs. While, Ian is a school caretaker from Derby. He feels like a fool now that he has used up his life savings to keep her in the UK but she casually dumped him.

Ian met Fatine in 2006 in Malaysia when he was working there. He had no idea that she was born a man named Mohammed Fazdi Min Bahari. When he found out the truth, he was too much in love to end the relationship. He chose to continue the same sex relationship with Fatine although she refused to have a sex change surgery. They got married in Derby in 2009 and didn't go back to Malaysia since homosexuality is illegal there.

Ian tried taking his own life by overdosing on prescribed antidepressants. He was forced to leave three school jobs because of issues raised by parents over his relationship. He says he has lost his job, house and wife. He is worried about getting back to his normal life all over again.

Wow...it is strange to see how men continue to be fooled at times if they want to. Human nature is weird to say the least. Love or emotions blind them completely. A lot of people use their partners to get visas and residency but Ian already knew he was a with a transsexual and yet continued to invest so much. Now he is crying. Let's hope he gets back to a normal life and not get fooled by anybody again.