Never-ending adventures

It’s been a while & I have been thinking about writing something but my life has again become extremely adventurous, which is why even when I come online, I don’t have the energy to scribble anything on the blog. And let me tell you, it’s adventurous not in the sexy sense :P 

I have noticed that tyrants & bullies only target the weak & innocent. Owing to bad judgment, sometimes they target the wrong person who is neither weak nor innocent. As I always say you must not underestimate anyone, but lots of fools have underestimated me & will keep on amusing me for the rest of my life. When they make the mistake of affronting me, naturally I retaliate…And I have a history of putting up fights with tyrants, dysfunctional, rotten, lecherous folks & you know all of that helps in the long run. What I find equally amusing is that they complain that no one has ever talked to them in this manner before. Some of us are only scared of God…humans, & particularly bad humans aren’t scary at all. This is just too difficult to grasp. 

See you don’t have to have someone’s backing to be strong. Suffering, injustice, humiliation, insult, etc help you become a much stronger person. What I find unfair is that some of us have been in the battlefield for too long. I guess this is the price one pays for making different choices or whatever. 

Just because Z & I are often seen having fun & laughing, it seems to bother many & that includes only women of all ages. They are the ones who get jealous & are dissatisfied with their own lives. I believe it's boring when you have it all :P And unlike them, we also help out animals & do whatever we could about humans as well. But they expect us to remain sad but we have changed the trend. Now laughing doesn't mean one is happy but one is enjoying the moment. What else do we have? We seize the moment whenever we can. As it is we are constantly fighting this battle or that battle & it has been 20 years. I was a teenager when Papa passed away, but I remember that I could share my problem with him & the burden was removed immediately. Z doesn't even know what was it like cause she was just a baby.

I have been thinking that saying I love you to parents without meaning it is useless but if you have respect for them deep down, it means they have succeeded as good parents. I wonder how many could say this about both the parents.

The gifts of insult

I just read it & I can’t help sharing it. At first I thought of posting it on ‘A Lonely Walk’ but then I decided to post it here, cause I’d like to say a couple of things. Here it goes:

‘If someone comes to you with a gift, and you do not accept it, who does the gift belong to?’– asked the Samurai.

‘He who tried to deliver it’ – replied one of his disciples.

‘The same goes for envy, anger and insults’ – said the master.

‘When they are not accepted, they continue to belong to the one who carried them.’

It’s so true people only give what they have. But I guess it’s really tough on you not to respond or react. Not that it’s tempting but it’s really irritating to put up with shit for too long. And Sartre very rightly said:

“There is a limit beyond which it is not possible to yield, because to do so would be culpable weakness.”

Although negative vibes can be felt all over when people can’t stand you for whatever reason. I guess it’s kind of difficult to keep on ignoring such people. At the same time, it’s amusing to know how much importance is given to you by those who do not matter at all.

Meherjaan - A Film That Has Opened Old Wounds

Meherjaan is a Bangladeshi film directed by Rubaiyat Hossain. It was released last month and was receiving positive response from the critics. However, the movie is not being received positively by the Bangladeshi people itself. So much so that the distributors have decided to pull off the film from all the cinemas of Bangladesh.

The movie is basically set in Bangladesh in the tough times of 1971 when Bangladesh was fighting for its liberation. The movie is about a love story between a Bangladeshi girl Meherjaan and a Pakistani soldier. The Pakistani soldier gets court martialled for refusing to participate in war crimes and atrocities. Jaya Bachchan and Victor Banerjee are part of the film cast which also attracted many serious film lovers.

But Bangladeshi audience is outraged and feel that the movie is degrading the sacrifices and wounds of the Bangladeshi women in particular. People are angry that why are they highlighting a love story of this sort when we know that at least 200,000 Bangladeshi women were raped by Pakistani soldiers at that time and at least 3 million Bangladeshis lost their lives at the hands of Pakistani soldiers. 

Four famous writers of Bangladesh wrote how this love story is demeaning the sufferings at the time of liberation war. One of the writer women was herself raped by a Pakistani soldier at that time. They feel this movie is an insult and a form of deception. Thus, the angry sentiments can not be reasoned with.

This was the first time a Bangladeshi film was being recognized by critics and now it is being pulled off from cinemas. The crew is being targeted in the form of a hate campaign for making this movie. The crew find this behavior irrational that everybody thinks that all Pakistanis were butchers and that there cannot be a single Pakistani soldier who could be good natured and who could rebel against the normal situation.

Well, for Bangladesh this is a sensitive topic. They cannot forget the bad times and the suffering during 1971. It is true they suffered badly and till this day they hold a grudge against Pakistanis. Thus, Meherjaan, despite promoting a different view is not going to be accepted by the people of Bangladesh. From the looks of it, the movie did seem pretty decent though. But we appreciate the filmmakers for looking at things from a different angle too. It is true that there will always be a few people who will look at things in a different way.