We don’t get answers every day. We don’t discover amazing things every day & neither do we care. We don’t know that with the aid of advanced science, we can rediscover the lost wisdom of ancients. But we know one thing for sure & that’s creating absurd myths on a daily basis.
It has been some movement in which they want us to believe that the new sexy is something very, very curvy with all the things in the wrong place. Yeah, it’s called obesity. I’m not looking down on fat people. The thing is...this deceiving attitude is not right.
We have even heard that nerds & geeks are sexy. Nerds & geeks are not sexy, but they are smart & intelligent people. It would have been so much better to use the right word for them but I guess nerds & geeks are too busy to waste their time on the word sexy. I’ve also heard that honesty is sexy, but it’s far from truth. Honesty makes you vulnerable & you get into trouble – if that is sexy, then something’s terribly wrong with sexy. We have really crazy, stupid myths & unfortunately, they are never being shattered. Having a good figure doesn’t mean people love you or they are keen on you. Maybe they just find you desirable & that too in a lusty, sick manner. I don’t find anything cool about it unless you are dying for attention.
But now they have raped the word sexy & there is nothing sexy about it. Thumbnail versions of that nude plus-size model were the most haunting images I’ve ever seen. And I see graphic images of abused animals all the time. However, the fashion world now supports this entire curvy movement. And it seems women of any size are just dying to be labeled as sexy.
Few days ago, I read this:
“Purple cloaks are meant for concealing age; jewelry is to make an ugly woman more presentable. A beautiful woman will be beautiful naked than wrapped in purple. In any case, fine ornaments are no use without good behavior; fine ornaments on bad behavior is worse than dirt. A fine figure is ornament enough – more than enough – for any woman.”
Plautus
Human qualities have never been that important. The words sexy, smart, & hot mean everything. That says a lot.
I was just thinking maybe the important question is: How important is sex appeal? Which of course gives rise to the other pertinent question: How important is ab fab sex (you can read good fuck cause it sounds a lot better)? But most importantly, are you satisfied with yourself? Do you feel good enough? And if you don’t feel good, then nothing on this planet can make you happy. These lies cannot help anyone. It’s depressing to know how people want to deceive themselves.
I think your best people will accept you with all your faults & shortcomings, & they won’t lie to you. And a guy who genuinely cares about you won’t have any problem with your weight & all that. When you care, it’s like: your problem is my problem. And there are far better ways to deal with a problem rather than lying to yourself & believing in the crap that media wants you to believe.
It has been some movement in which they want us to believe that the new sexy is something very, very curvy with all the things in the wrong place. Yeah, it’s called obesity. I’m not looking down on fat people. The thing is...this deceiving attitude is not right.
We have even heard that nerds & geeks are sexy. Nerds & geeks are not sexy, but they are smart & intelligent people. It would have been so much better to use the right word for them but I guess nerds & geeks are too busy to waste their time on the word sexy. I’ve also heard that honesty is sexy, but it’s far from truth. Honesty makes you vulnerable & you get into trouble – if that is sexy, then something’s terribly wrong with sexy. We have really crazy, stupid myths & unfortunately, they are never being shattered. Having a good figure doesn’t mean people love you or they are keen on you. Maybe they just find you desirable & that too in a lusty, sick manner. I don’t find anything cool about it unless you are dying for attention.
But now they have raped the word sexy & there is nothing sexy about it. Thumbnail versions of that nude plus-size model were the most haunting images I’ve ever seen. And I see graphic images of abused animals all the time. However, the fashion world now supports this entire curvy movement. And it seems women of any size are just dying to be labeled as sexy.
Few days ago, I read this:
“Purple cloaks are meant for concealing age; jewelry is to make an ugly woman more presentable. A beautiful woman will be beautiful naked than wrapped in purple. In any case, fine ornaments are no use without good behavior; fine ornaments on bad behavior is worse than dirt. A fine figure is ornament enough – more than enough – for any woman.”
Plautus
Human qualities have never been that important. The words sexy, smart, & hot mean everything. That says a lot.
I was just thinking maybe the important question is: How important is sex appeal? Which of course gives rise to the other pertinent question: How important is ab fab sex (you can read good fuck cause it sounds a lot better)? But most importantly, are you satisfied with yourself? Do you feel good enough? And if you don’t feel good, then nothing on this planet can make you happy. These lies cannot help anyone. It’s depressing to know how people want to deceive themselves.
I think your best people will accept you with all your faults & shortcomings, & they won’t lie to you. And a guy who genuinely cares about you won’t have any problem with your weight & all that. When you care, it’s like: your problem is my problem. And there are far better ways to deal with a problem rather than lying to yourself & believing in the crap that media wants you to believe.
