Thursday, January 5, 2012

Demi Moore’s frank interview with Harper’s Bazaar Magazine



It’s frank & at the same time depressing to read her views. Demi Moore is no doubt going through a very bad phase of her life. Her third marriage has collapsed & all of us know how Ashton Kutcher cheated on her. Even the Kabala counseling couldn’t help the couple much. Btw, she has studied Kabala for the past eight, nine years. Moreover I also read somewhere that Demi Moore preferred threesome & that has been the reason behind all this mess. Whatever the reason maybe, this interview only points out one thing - she is really down. We just hope she gets better soon.

When asked about what scares her most, Demi Moore revealed : "I would say what scares me is that I'm going to ultimately find out at the end of my life that I'm really not lovable, that I'm not worthy of being loved. That there's something fundamentally wrong with me."

She also said, ‘There is no way to reach your fullest potential if you don’t really find the love of yourself.’

Heartbreaks & insecurities about love can make people say such things. How can one feel so unworthy? Finding fault with yourself wouldn’t make things okay. I guess it’s the most difficult thing to take infidelity, cause it just tells you very openly there is something missing in you otherwise the guy wouldn’t have opted for the other woman. I don’t really blame Demi for saying all this & I don’t know why some people want her to be very strong at the moment. Isn’t it natural?

I really don’t believe in this crap about age difference. Anyhow, breakups are never that easy on anyone. One person always suffers more & many a times, the other person doesn’t even give a damn. It’s so easy for some people to throw you out of their lives as they have innumerable options.

It’s saddening to read this part:

“And nobody cares, and it doesn't matter. It's not for anybody else. It's absolutely just for me.”

Whenever someone says it doesn’t matter. It really matters, cause if it didn’t, then you may not even be talking or thinking about it. Everyone needs a companion. Everyone needs someone to care about him/her, but it’s a tragedy when you let go of someone who isn’t worthy enough to be with you or you don’t ever find anyone. And that part is absolutely just for you.

Anyway, Demi Moore will be seen in the upcoming movie Lovelace. She’s playing the role of a feminist.

Prior to her relationship with Ashton, she was married to actor Bruce Willis for 13 years. When she was just 18, she got married to singer Freddy Moore but the marriage ended in 1984.

You could check out the entire interview here. The Feb issue of Harper’s Bazaar will hit the newsstand on 17th Jan.

Demi Moore & Amanda De Cadenet: in conversation