Well a lot of people keep scribbling their problems. Not that I have any issue with it but the fact is…problems don’t go away when you post them on FB & I also don’t think 99 % care whether you’re happy or not. They don’t even care whether you die the next day. We know life goes on. Even those who love you never die for you.
At the same time, some people have this habit of saying nasty things to you on their status rather than saying it to you in person. This thing happened to me 3, 4 times & I also know others who have been through it. The funny thing is…those people are not even good friends & they expect such a lot that they scribble status in your honor.
Speaking of which reminds me of the school teacher I met on FB after so many years. And what a disappointment it has been! I don’t want to meet other teachers now. She has put a question mark on everyone. She used to share lots of links where she thought she had the right to insult & judge every single person. I don’t know who the hell she was targeting but she definitely takes full advantage of FB when it comes to emotionally abusing people who had the misfortune to meet her.
I believe it’s better to share the problem with the person involved rather than Facebooking it, cause it really doesn’t help. It’s another thing if the other person doesn’t want to address the grievances you’re facing. The chances are…you’re just imagining stuff. We need to put question marks not just on things we take for granted but innumerable other meaningless stuff as well. The word ‘misunderstanding’ can solve most of the problem. Once you know you were imagining stuff, you can move on. And to be honest, no one cares whether you had coffee or you went to bathroom or your kid could pee or you have problems, cause problem free life is an illusion. Anyhow, they have all successfully managed to make FB also excruciatingly boring now.
At the same time, some people have this habit of saying nasty things to you on their status rather than saying it to you in person. This thing happened to me 3, 4 times & I also know others who have been through it. The funny thing is…those people are not even good friends & they expect such a lot that they scribble status in your honor.
Speaking of which reminds me of the school teacher I met on FB after so many years. And what a disappointment it has been! I don’t want to meet other teachers now. She has put a question mark on everyone. She used to share lots of links where she thought she had the right to insult & judge every single person. I don’t know who the hell she was targeting but she definitely takes full advantage of FB when it comes to emotionally abusing people who had the misfortune to meet her.
I believe it’s better to share the problem with the person involved rather than Facebooking it, cause it really doesn’t help. It’s another thing if the other person doesn’t want to address the grievances you’re facing. The chances are…you’re just imagining stuff. We need to put question marks not just on things we take for granted but innumerable other meaningless stuff as well. The word ‘misunderstanding’ can solve most of the problem. Once you know you were imagining stuff, you can move on. And to be honest, no one cares whether you had coffee or you went to bathroom or your kid could pee or you have problems, cause problem free life is an illusion. Anyhow, they have all successfully managed to make FB also excruciatingly boring now.
